What topics are appropriate to discuss with a teacher outside of conferences?

You do not have to save every conversation for parent-teacher conferences. Teachers are happy to hear from you about things that actually help them understand your child better. It is totally appropriate to reach out about changes at home that might affect school, like a move, a new sibling, or a family pet that suddenly became a household celebrity. You can also talk about learning struggles, social challenges, or big wins worth celebrating. What is not so helpful? Gossip about other kids, daily play-by-plays of minor issues, or questioning every grade. Keep it focused, relevant, and respectful. Think of it like sending a postcard from your child’s world at home, quick updates, not a full novel.