What are the signs that my child is struggling with a school change?

Not every struggle shows up as a dramatic meltdown. Sometimes it’s subtle: frequent headaches, mood swings, or “I don’t want to go” mornings. Maybe your once chatty kid clams up or their grades dip out of nowhere. Changes in sleep, appetite, or friend drama can all be signals, too. Trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is. The best move? Ask how things are going, and actually listen. You don’t have to launch a full investigation. Just create space for them to talk, vent, or even shrug. If the struggle continues, don’t hesitate to loop in a teacher, counselor, or consultant. You’re not supposed to figure it all out alone.