How early should I start talking to my child about changing schools?

As soon as it’s a real possibility, start the conversation. No need to break the news like it’s a dramatic plot twist, but giving your child time to process and ask questions helps ease nerves. Start casually, maybe over pancakes or a walk, and keep things light and open-ended. If you wait until acceptance letters are in hand, you miss out on valuable input that could make the transition smoother. Kids need time to wrap their heads around change, just like adults do. So think early, not urgent. It’s a journey, not a pop quiz—and the more time you give them, the more confident and curious they’ll feel.