Do parents always have to be involved in the admissions process?

Even though your child is the one applying, private schools usually want parents in the mix, especially for younger kids. That doesn’t mean you need to take the reins, but expect to write a parent statement, join an interview, or show up at some family-oriented events along the way. Even for high school applicants, your engagement signals investment in the community. That said, “involved” doesn’t mean hovering—it means showing up with support, care, and perspective. Think of yourself as a partner, not a manager. Your calm presence, thoughtful insights, and respectful communication all shape how a school views your family as a whole. You’re not just applying to a school—you’re joining a community.