What should I do if a teacher says no to writing a recommendation letter?

First, do not panic. A teacher saying no is not a personal attack on your character. It usually just means they do not feel they can write you the glowing recommendation you deserve. Thank them for their honesty, because trust me, you would rather have a teacher politely decline than submit a lukewarm letter. Next, move quickly to your backup plan. Think about another teacher who knows you well and can highlight your strengths. When you ask the next person, be clear that you are looking for someone who can write a strong and enthusiastic recommendation. Always keep it professional and positive. One “no” is not the end of the world; it is just part of the adventure of college applications.